Blogging about motherhood, family, Interfaith life, Asian-American life, artist life, and whatever else I find a-mus-ing.
Wednesday, December 18, 2013
Why December Makes Me Sad
I wrote a blog post for Kveller.com this week, and I'd like to link to it here. Perhaps, despite the melancholy tone of the piece, you'll feel hopeful like I do?
Hello, December. It’s that time of year here in America. A time for good tidings of comfort and joy. A time for happy family memories and meaningful traditions. But for me and my interfaith marriage, December now comes packaged with a new tradition–an annual holiday cry (or if I’m really being honest…cries. Plural.)
Now I know a lot of people cry during the holidays. The pressure of stressful travel plans and forced family gatherings is enough to make many people crack. But for the interfaith family, December is a particularly lonely time.
I go online to order holiday cards. (I am a little behind this year.) I skip over the red and green ones, the ones with Christmas trees or holly or Santa Claus, the ones that say “Merry Christmas,” the ones that say “Happy Hanukkah,” and I’m left to choose from lots of cards with “Seasons Greetings” or “Happy Holidays” written generically on the front. After much much agonizing, I pick, “Peace, Joy, and Love.” Those are things that people from all faiths want, right? Continue reading -->
Thursday, October 17, 2013
Why My Marriage Isn't Trendy
Musing on why my marriage isn't trendy...
I missed writing a post this week, but in its place I had the opportunity to blog for Kveller.com, a website devoted to "parenting with a Jewish twist." I have the honor of bringing an interfaith perspective to the conversation.
So I decided to start at the very beginning (a very good place to start), and blog about my relationship with my husband. I think some people might feel saddened to read this, while others may relate, and yet others will not understand why it its a difficult story for me to share. Regardless of which kind of reader you are, I hope that what I have to say creates opportunities for empathetic conversation.
Here is my post...
I'm a Chinese American Married to a Jew, But Our Marriage Isn't Trendy
